FRIENDSHIPS AND THE HUMAN AURA
The value of friendship and the human aura cannot be overstated. Surrounding yourself with appropriate friendships helps to move forward on your journey through life. Many friends come and go. That’s because the human aura may attract who we need at different stages of our growth. The aura always reflects specific colours of self-development.
My Soul Friendships……………………
When I was seventeen years old I met and fell in love with my husband Paul. I got an additional bonus, his father, Toby. Instantly we became best friends for forty five years, until his death. We were each other’s confidant. My husband once said that ‘there are three people in our marriage”. Such was my friendship with his father. Paul and I were soul mates for fifty two years until his death. During my school years I didn’t cultivate friendships. Firstly, I was fearful of anyone know ing that I could see and read their aura . And second, my eldest brother was my best friend. Together we went to the beach, to concerts, theatre, and dances. When I left school, we travelled together to the city for work. My eldest brother Chris, is one of my soulmates. He and my husband Paul, his father Toby, became good friends. My three Capricorn soulmates. For this I have always felt blessed. When my husband died, it was my brother Chris who was the first on the scene to hug and comfort me. We both cried on each others shoulder.
True friends, contribute to the balance of your aura because they are people who want the best, for the best part of you. Friends that will support you when you are down. Friends that will help you to celebrate good news. As a soul incarnate, you have the right and responsibility to surround yourself with people who are good for the best part of you. And you in turn are good for the best part of them. Together, you help to create auric balance for each other. Apricot energy, caring communication, is present in the aura of true friends.
True Story: Tom and Julie, Reg and Mavis had been friends for forty nine years. When Tom and Mavis died. Julie and Reg continued to regularly meet up as friends. Tired of living alone, Julie and Reg decided to sell up their respective family homes, and to purchase a three bedroom bungalow, in a retirement village. One bedroom each, and one for grand children when they visited. As long term friends, they supported each other in health and wellbeing.
True Story: My mother and Helen, had been friends for fifty five years. My mother, at age ninety fours years old, moved into a nursing home for full time care. Helen, had a serious fall at home and her family were advised that she was in need of full time care. Helen asked to be with my mother. Nowadays, they sit and chat, watch television together, support one another and embrace each other’s family visitors. Meaningful friendship to the end.
FRIENDSHIPS AND AURA SUFFOCATION
Groups of friends who when gathered together, moan and complain about life, are dulling and impairing each other’s aura.
- Don’t hang around with people who are repeatedly spiralling downward. They hold you back.
- If you tolerate negative friendships the aura reflects tacit approval and acceptance.
- If you truly care about your negative friends, develop a plan to lift the spirit of the friendship with laughter, so as to avoid them from dragging you down.
True Story: Bethany was happy in her marriage. And had three children at school, doing well. At work, Bethany developed a close relationship with a group of female work colleagues. All were divorced and two, hated men intensely. After three years of their friendship, Bethany started questioning her relationship with her husband. This resulted in her leaving the family home. Her husband fought hard to win her back. Their children encouraged them to take a three week holiday together. They did. It save their marriage. Bethany came to realise that her friends, only has space for divorcees in their group. She quit her job.
True Story: Maryanne hung around with a down and out crowd. Her parents were concerned. She left home and went to stay with a friend. Months later at aged eighteen, she fell in love. He suggested that they move in together. She found the apartment and worked to pay the rent. He contributed nothing. Within a few months Maryanne was pregnant. He threatened her to have an abortion. Maryanne, confused and frightened, called her grandmother. Thirty minutes later her grandparents arrived at the apartment. They packed up her clothes and took Maryanne home with them. The next day, Maryanne’s parents came round to visit. Everyone agreed to let the past be the past, and to focus on the baby. Maryanne had a baby girl and named her Maggie, after her beloved grandmother. Maryanne’s parents and grandparents, raised money to buy an apartment for Maryanne and her baby. Her inheritance money.
When friendship suffocates an aura, self-determination maybe lost and lives may be ruined. Bethany was saved by the love of her husband and children. Maryanne was saved by the love of her grandparents and parents. It’s always takes “tough love” to release a person whose aura has been severely suffocated. My parents too, had their trials with me. It was their unconditional love that saw me return to the tribe.
ADOLESCENT FRIENDSHIPS
For many years, in the aura, I have seen that friendships formed during a time of adolescence may create a lifetime of mateship. The aura identifies this as branching out, so as to establish one’s tribe.. According to science the human brain works differently during adolescence. Placing high value on peer friendships and forming deep relationships. Minds in sync.
The human aura strategically charts the development of adolescent relationships. Most teenage auras are positive. Others, due to peer group pressure may plummet as personal vulnerability seeks to engage with the wrong group in a negative place.
REFLECTION ON FRIENDSHIPS
At times, it pays to examine how we are travelling through life and to ensure we are supported and positively encouraged by friends and family. As our needs change, so may friendships. If you are fortunate enough to share your space on earth with a lifetime friend, count your blessings. If you are fortunate enough to share your life with a soulmate or soul family, count your blessings.
Why? Because your aura will have emotional balance, progressive growth and self-determination. Which in turn provides a sense of security and inner peace.
