COMMUNICATION, LANGUAGE & THE HUMAN AURA
Language has a colourful and tonal, vibrating rhythm, which, during a conversation or argument, is quick to penetrate and engulf the physical layer of the human aura, with either a positive or negative impact.
The language of love is all embracing. Lifting the spirit of one’s self to giddy heights. The language of humiliation and criticism however, taps into natural human feelings of self doubt and may plunge one’s self into depression.
The language of self-talk, has the strongest form of colourful and tonal, vibrating rhythm. It can make you or break yo. It can trigger thoughts of self-harm. Language can provoke aggression and violence, polluting the aura with pockets of lemon-green, , charcoal grey and gun-metal grey.
Being conscious of the way you speak and listen during a conversation or disagreement, is essential. Learn how to consciously respond, and how not to emotionally react.
Disruptive Listening Vibrations in the Aura
* Frequently interrupting and trying to finish the other person’s sentence
* Jumping to conclusions, or assuming and pre-empting what they are going to say or mean
* Answering with advice, even when it is not asked for
* Making up your mind before you have all the information
* Not answering or responding, even when you say you will
* Being impatient
* Losing your temper when hearing things you don’t agree with
* Trying to change the subject to something that is more interesting to you
* Thinking more about your reply, while the other person is speaking, rather than listening to what they are saying
* Being easily distracted, or tuning out when someone else is talking
* Ignoring non-verbal clues
The Human Aura Benefits with Active Listening
* Portrays trust to others
* Broadens our perspective and understanding
* Strengthens our patience and tolerance
* Improves and helps to maintain relationships
* Increases our knowledge and competence
* Saves time and money
* Helps identify and address problems, leading to healthy self-reflection
* Increases feelings of connection and a vital sense of belonging
* Reduces conflict and can help with mental health issues
Positive and Negative Language
Positive words when strung together in a sentence, sing. “I love you” or “Who’s Daddy’s favourite girl” or “Congratulations, well done.”
The musical tones in a positive sentence enhance self-awareness and self development. Thus enriching the colours of one’s aura.
Negative words when strung together in a sentence, tend to threaten, in either a mild or heavy way. “How many times have I told you not to do that.” or “Why it is me, who has to do everything.” or “Stop ignoring me.” or “Am I invisible.” or “It’s not fair.” “You are a real disappointment”.
Negative language quickly drains an aura. Making one feel fatigued and in need of solace.
TO MAINTAIN A BALANCED AURA HUMAN LANGUAGE NEEDS TO REFLECT A POSITIVE TONE