FEELING LOST and THE HUMAN AURA
Feeling lost is an overwhelming, emotional sensation that may fluctuate throughout life. For some, due to childhood trauma, it may even be an under current, that flows through their very being. The human aura portrays it as a disconnection from self-acceptance, and a disconnection from their tribe. In short, self-acceptance and human belonging is shrouded. Gunmetal grey or charcoal grey in the human aura, shows long term deprivation of love, which usually requires professional counselling. Pale grey auric energy however, reflects a victim of circumstance. A condition that will pass with healing and with time.
The human experience is to seek out security in relationships because we believe that it brings us certainty and safety. However, in relationships, we give parts of ourselves to different people in different ways. Such as a spouse, parents, siblings, grandparents, friends, neighbours and work colleagues. When any of those parts are mistreated, rejected or lost, it is natural to feel, abandoned. A combination of Pale blue, Pink and Mushroom in the human aura, produces a feeling of self-pity.
STRENGTHENING SELF RESOLVE
When you are feeling lost, you will to need to build a reserve of self-empowerment credits, to call upon when feeling low, and to avoid emotionally slipping backwards.
Each experiential learning step, undertaken in understanding and strengthening your resolve, will automatically lighten the colours in your aura. Creating a happier disposition.
- Reading: Step out of yourself and into the life of others. Biographies and autobiographies are packed with personal challenges of life and individual ways of resolve. You will gain insight into natural coping strategies.
- Volunteer: Expose yourself to those less fortunate than yourself. Witness, first hand, their resolve to survive against all odds. Example: Refugees and the escalating number of homeless women.
BUILDING THE CORE OF YOUR WORLD
We human beings, are a souls incarnate, on a lifetime journey to live and learn from the human experience. Consequently, the human aura is charged with vibrant energy when it connects to a tribe. Creating or encouraging a supportive network can help with strengthening your resolve. Creating a space to call home, in which they are a few familiar things associated with memories, is another source of connection to tribe.
- Get to know people. Host a morning tea or supper for neighbours or friends.
- Join a club or group activity that interests or challenges you.
- Meet friends, family or work colleagues at a local cafe once a week.
LIFE STORIES
Andy, aged thirty years old, bought a house in the suburbs. It was a new beginning. He didn’t know anyone in his new neighbourhood. Andy loved to garden and to grow edible plants. I suggested that he print off some brochures and drop them into the letter box of nearby residents. “Organic fruit and vegetable exchange at his house on the first Sunday of the month.” Surprisingly, fifteen people attended the first meeting. It became the building block on which new friendships flourished. Neighbours trading vegetables, and helping to support each other.
When heavy rainfall, flooded Andy’s house, his neighbours helped with the clean up and small repairs. Andy, a gay social worker, specialising in geriatric care, had felt very much alone. But had now, connected to a tribe. His aura was dotted with coloured pockets of “connection” - Pumpkin, Orange, Jade, Apricot, Pink and Dark Brown. Andy felt accepted, respected and worthy.
Due to a steep increase in rent, Selina, aged forty eight years old, could no longer afford her rented apartment. For several weeks she lived in her car. I suggested that she print out a notice of her intent, and place it on a community notice board. And to also place a notice on the community facebook page. “Wanted. Room to rent in Aged person’s home. Will help with errands, housework and gardens.” Selina, moved into a large, semi-furnished room in Tom’s house. His daughter was pleased to have found someone to live with her father. She offered Selina 50% off the rent, if she could keep the house and gardens clean and tidy. Selina lived with Tom for five years. When he died, Tom’s daughter found her an affordable apartment and paid the rental bond. A random act of kindness. A reflection of how Selina had offered Tom the opportunity to live at home and avoid life in a nursing home. Selina’s aura was filled with the colours of friendship - apricot, orange, pale blue and pink.
FEELING LOST? SEEK OUT YOUR TRIBE. HOPE IS A HEALER
