DIVORCE AND THE HUMAN AURA
Divorce, with its personal challenge, upheavals, stresses, emotional negotiations, sense of loss, fears of change, and challenge to self-worth, creates may faces. For some it heralds forth a sense of relief. For others it is a war of wills and/or a catastrophic event. The path of divorce, and separation, shifts and changes aura patterns, in the short term and long term. Forming a myriad of positive and destructive colourful patterns.
Relationships, both amicable change and traumatic change create pockets of loss in the human aura. As one can imagine the loss may be superficial or deep seated. Pale yellow and mustard colours worked their way from the “now” to the “future” reality. Imbedding pockets of loos around the hands and feet. Signalling that trauma of divorce is impacting your day to day life and future planning. Colours such as sepia, raw sienna, juniper green, dark green and pale grey, identify a need for emotional and physiological support and counseling. When a human aura is weighed down by regrets, loss, anger, stress, frustration, low self-esteem and self-pity, it clouds the flow of energy. Portraying a sense of bewilderment, imbalance and clouded judgement. The combination of the colours may form part of the psyche, and result in long term bitterness and resentment.
There are steps that can be easily taken to bring some balance into your aura.
Avoid reinforcing negativity and trauma
Avoid listening to sad songs
Avoid reading books or watching movies with a theme of relationship breakups
Avoid conversations with friends or family that have experience relationship break ups
Avoid blaming yourself and others
Keep a Diary
Every day write a positive thought, conversation or event
Everyday examine steps you are taking to move forward
Outline a future plan for yourself and family.
It’s fine to have down days - but don’t dwell on them.
Record new things that you have learnt
Make Time To Pamper Yourself Have a relaxing herbal bath.
Meditate or play an uplifting instrumental recording
Every week cook a new recipe
Place perfume flowers in your bedroom or an aromatherapy oil burner
Go through your wardrobe and create new outfits by mixing and matching
Go for an early morning walk in the fresh air
Sit in the moonlight with the drink of your choice. Sip slowly
Let comedy feed your psyche. Watch comedy. Laugh a lot
Read biographies of those who have faced adversity and come through it all
SELF-COUNSELLING FOR A DIVORCEE
My book ‘Awakening The Miracle of You, is a self counseling book to help individuals cope with specific issues in life. You will find a self-counseling section for the divorcee. When you engage in self-counseling you will progressively feel more in tune with yourself. Your aura will begin move energy around and on the path to coping and healing.
