The WIDOWED SOULMATE and the AURA

In early September 2024, my husband passed away. Years of wedded bliss and companionship safely secured in my memory. His death, caused me to take a good look at the impact on my own aura and at the auras of other men and women who have shared the same kind of loss. My curiosity got the better of me. Almost a lifetime spent with your soul mate???

Marriage and partnerships have many levels of connection which help to make the relationship work happily. A soul mate’s connection however, is different. A unique creamy pearl glow is present in the aura. Signifying several lifetimes of unity. When they meet, they may experience, instant recognition. Example - My husband Paul and I met at age seventeen. Day one - recognition of each other. Day two - talking and feeling as if we had known each other, all of our life. Day three to day nine, making future plans. Day ten - telling our parents that we plan to marry. Luckily for us, my parents had fallen in love and married in their teens. My mother explained that at day two of our relationship. both her and my father knew that Paul was the one for me. She said ‘ we could see it in your eyes, the window of the soul” How true. On his passing, we had shared fifty four years of a loving companionship.

Soulmates can appear at any stage in one’s life. It frequently occurs in second marriages, or when a person is widowed young, with or without children, or even among the elderly in the last chapter of their life.

the In the 1990’s at a Conscious Awareness festival, a man aged seventy-nine, walked past my Aura stall several times. He took a glimpse of my skill and technique and then quickly walked away. After fifteen minutes of this behaviour, he bravely booked an aura analysis with me. I quickly took him by the hand. He had intestinal cancer and the astral aura of a female spirit, watching over him. I quickly sketched his aura and went on to explain it. He asked me to ask the female spirit to offer some proof of identity. She was quick to respond, so I wrote down what she said. He leaned over me to read it and suddenly burst into deep, quiet sobbing. I stood up and held him in a comforting embrace. It was Mary, his wife who passed two years earlier. They had been in love since they were fifteen years old. I explained how Mary would be present at his passing. I also shared some aura insights by which Mary could come to him in his dreams. The next day when I arrived at the festival, I saw that he had brought thirteen family members, to have an aura analysis with me.

When a soul mate dies, the creamy pearl hue that binds them, completely disappears in the aura of the living mate. Like the man who had sought an aura analysis, mine has completely disappeared too. Not to worry. It travels within the Astral Aura of the deceased soul mate and will be reconnected at the passing of their soul mate. In short, my husband Paul will reconnect with my Astral aura at the exact moment of my passing. The procedure is the same even when a person commits suicide over the loss of their soul mate. That’s because soulmates are unified at all levels of the spirit.

The widowed soul mate has a hollowness in their aura. It looks as if a vital organ has been removed. Colours that surround the hollowness are transparent and thread-like. Colours may be dark or light. Threads may be thick or thin. Variations are determined by the sense of loss and the depth of grief experienced by the widowed soulmate. The surviving soulmate may find it difficult to be supported and counseled by friends and family. It is challenging for them to engage with anyone other than the intimate, unconditional relationship shared with their deceased soulmate.

Over the years, I have witnessed the auric vacuum, that the passing of a soulmate has left in the aura of their surviving partner. Their aura is not drab or dull. Pale pink, pale blue, apricot and maroon woven threads around the torso, demonstrates a knowing and understanding of an everlasting precious love.

The vacuum can sit shrouded, behind the colours of self-empowerment, psychic abilities, creative skills, spiritual development, depression and individuality. This is because the Vacuum has become a part of the living aura, held in place by the Astral Aura.

To locate the vacuum in the aura, one has to look slowly and carefully for a wispy, bluish-grey, semi-oval shield, that may either be combined with or beneath the physical aura layers. During the stages of death, the vacuum may dissipate and within moments suddenly reappear as it is slowly absorbed by the Astral Aura.

My husband died in hospital. I brought his body home. I dressed him in his favourite comfy casual clothes and laid him out on the cooling body-mat in his favourite room for a few days. Friends and neighbours came to farewell Paul and to share in afternoon tea. Also to write a message on his cardboard coffin, which I had covered in colourful heart shapes, in readiness of their messages. After everyone had gone, I wrote my message. I wandered into the room where he lay and saw the man with whom I spent more than fifty years. We had turned grey together. Paul was a true soulmate. He loved and cared for me unconditionally. And, in all the years that we shared, as a mark of trust and respect, I never once read his aura.

Although the loss is intense, I am blessed to be a Widowed Soulmate, in the web of Universal Life.